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A Radical New Approach Transforms Relationships

I can’t count the number of times couples have sat in my office and taken up their old familiar approach. They sit on opposite ends of the couch, glaring at each other, each waiting for the other to change their tune. The wife impatiently waits for her husband to blink first and give in to… Read More

7 Signs You’re on the Path to Divorce: A Therapist’s Perspective

The following 7 signs have been complied by years of working with couples on the brink of divorce. Each of these signs is a clear marker that your relationship is headed in the wrong direction. If no action is taken to reverse course, divorce could be looming. 1. Lack of Respect Couples in distress tend… Read More

3 Strategies to End Arguments with your Partner

Do you feel like you and your partner argue too much? Do you go back and forth for hours or even days without getting anything resolved or moving forward? Are these arguments surrounding the same issues over and over again? If so, you are not alone. Many, if not most, of the couples I work… Read More

Relationship Killers: 3 Deadly Traps to Avoid

Relationship killers are patterns of behavior that all couples get stuck in from time to time. Most people don’t know what these relationship traps look like, and therefore can’t avoid them. Below are 3 of the most common relationship killers that I see in my practice. Learn better strategies that will get you more of… Read More

“Girly” Girls vs. “Manly” Men: The Impact on Relationships

Politics isn’t the only area where polarization has led to ongoing conflict. The polarization of genders has been causing problems in relationships for centuries. If having a large gulf between the sexes is such a bad idea, how come it has largely gone unchanged? Starting on Different Paths There is no doubt that boys and… Read More